Love & Relationship Advice

That’s complicated, but sooner or later he has to decide! He probably doesn’t like his girlfriend anymore but feels bad about dumping her completely or being rude to her. He seems like a nice guy. I would advise you to talk to him about the situation. If you’re sure he likes you back there’s no big deal. If you don’t have the nerve to do this you can ask him about his ex, if he still likes her and what’s the deal with her. If he says he doesn’t like her but doesn’t want to hurt her by cutting her off you should encourage him not to talk to her anymore, let him know that he isn’t helping her getting over him and if it bugs him that she keeps coming back to see him he should start by beginning to be more unavailable for her. If he wants to have any affection with you that’s the fist thing he’s gotta do, she’s gotta go.  

Sorry but he’s not interested. He was at first but lost interest later. Some people are like this, when they realize that you like them as well they loose interest. So what I advise you to do is forget about him and look for someone who likes you and won’t lose interest once they see you like him too! Good luck! 

Sweetie I don’t blame you for being worried. You should worry. He likes you and he won’t hurt you, but he has to be treating himself and he has to take it seriously. Is he on heavy medication? How often does he sees his psychiatrist? Is he under control now? What about his parents? Do they worry about him? Is he seeing a shrink? He has to!

You have to help him in any possible way now that he’s going through this, try not to make him angry and talk to him whenever you see that he’s not well. Try to find a way to calm him down when he gets upset and make sure he’s on meds and has a behavior of a normal person 85 to 90% of the time. If you don’t trust him and you feel that you shouldn’t be with him then go with your gut. But try to help him anyway, because depressions are very hard to deal with and if you “abandon” him it my worsen. 

Hi! I liked the way you put your story. I still don’t know who C is, though.

I think you should go with your gut. Don’t listen to what B says, if you like the guy and this time he’s broken up with his girlfriend to be with you it seems he really likes you. You cannot compare yourself to B because it’s clear he didn’t like her enough. If he seems like a nice guy (and I think he does) you should give him a chance. Don’t judge him based on the past because he hasn’t done anything wrong! Good luck! 

OMG, first of all, don’t ever do that again so you don’t have to go through this again! How frustrating! If his interest in you was so obvious like you said it was, you could try to start a conversation with him (in a lady-not-desperate way). I think he was shy, that’s why he stared but didn’t do anything. If you’re shy too (which is my case), you could just accidentally bump into him or something.

Now it’s going to be really hard for you to find him, bur hard isn’t impossible! The only way for you to try to find him again or to find out something about him is to go back to the place you saw him the first time. It would be wiser to go on the same day like, let’s say you went there on a Saturday, then go on a Saturday again, or at least during the weekend. Still, if you can’t find him you can always ask around! Ask the staff about him, describe him to them and see if you can find any hints! If you don’t have the guy’s name or any info about him and you saw him in a big city, like NYC for instance, then you’re gonna have to rely on serendipity, destiny and so forth! 

First of all, calm down! 

Second, how is your relationship with this guy? Is he nice to you? Treats you well? Maybe he didn’t see your message or maybe he just needs some space. Maybe the weight of graduation has hit him and he had the need to be alone for a while. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or things have changed. BTW, are you still dealing with this matter or is everything fine now? I think you wrote me awhile ago, that’s why I’m asking. 

Hi! Sorry, I didn’t find your question! 

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Talk to him! That’s the only option. You don’t have to be too excited when you talk to him, just go as you would a friend, ask him what time is it, or how long is it still gonna take till the class is over.

Another option is to try to discover what his interests are, like, basketball for instance, and then say something about that subject as if you didn’t even know he cares about it, so he would think it was a coincidence… Know what I mean? 

But don’t be too aggressive, you have to go slow, he must not notice you’re trying to get to know his interests in order to approach him.